There is nothing else to say, because it is folly to ask the kids to show self control and discipline when the supervising adult fails so abysmally at it. There is fiery, and there is abusive. The line between them separates the coach from the bully.
There is nothing left to say, because anyone recruiting against Rutgers need only suggest that a parent watch the tape and answer one question. "Is that what you want for your son's college basketball experience?"
There is nothing left to say, because if such behavior is rationalized, what shred of credibility is left in a university's promise that it aspires to a higher standard?
Play the tape. Stop when you get to the part where the standard is high. Stop when you get to the part that screams for leniency for Rice -- which athletic director Tim Pernetti showed, with a three-game suspension. As punishment goes, that was more than a parking ticket, and a lot less than it should have been.
There is nothing left to say, because it doesn't have to be that way. This is not about making a team tougher. This is not about instilling pride, trying to get a team ready to compete against all the meanies in the Big East. If that is the excuse, it is an empty one. There are plenty of tough-minded teams out there, competing against the best of the best, without resorting to cruelty behind closed doors.
Besides, it hasn't seemed to work. Seen Rutgers in the NCAA Tournament lately?
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Rutgers coach Mike Rice gestures in a game against DePaul earlier this season.
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Rutgers coach Mike Rice gestures in a Jan. 30 game against Cincinnati.
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Rutgers coach Mike Rice gestures during a game against DePaul on Feb. 16.
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As outsiders, we have to be careful how we judge that world. Any number of players can and do tell stories of harsh practice treatment, and feel they were the better for it. Including some from Rutgers, who have been quoted as saying they were not unduly bothered by it all. Maybe they understand better than we.
It is a complex relationship. A player goes to college, and this is the coach's charge: Help make him confident. Help make him a winner. Help make him a man. Tough love is OK. Stern demands are OK. A raised voice is OK. Strict accountability is OK. The job is not for the soft, or the coddled.
But what happened on those tapes is not OK. It can't be OK. Remember the stormy practice tape that once leaked on Bob Knight? This makes Knight look like Mr. Rogers.
The coach threw basketballs at players' heads. The coach called players the most vile of names. The coach ranted and railed. I don't know his motives, or his thinking, but it looked like a documentary on road rage.
Is that the way you have to act to have a good basketball team at dear old Rutgers? The athletic director has said no. But if Mike Rice faces no more penalty than three games and a $50,000 fine, what he's really saying is yes. A depressing answer, for the very game itself.
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The Marquette Golden Eagles lost to Syracuse 55-39 in the Elite 8.
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The Florida Gators lost to Michigan 79-59 in the Elite 8.
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